Marriage

 I think married is a beatiful tradition. I haven´t got married yet. I look forward to be in the future. I have had girlfriend for four years. She would like getting married, me too. She would like celebrate it in the cathedral of Salamanca. It´s a pretty place to celebrate these events. There are two kinds of ceremonies, religious and civil. I have been both of them. I think that two ceremonies are really different but I have enjoyed both of them. In the future, I´d prefer to get married in a religious ceremony. I´m a traditional person.

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I wish I never have to get married. It´s absolutely necessary for me to be completely sure that my partner is with me just because he loves me, and not because once upon a time he promised that he would love me forever. Promising something like that is simply insane. There are two words that can´t go together in the same sentence "Love" and "Commitment". These two words should never be mixed, because everybody should be free to love and free to stay. I feel happy when I wake up every morning and realise how lucky I am of sharing my life with someone who is totaly free to go but he prefers to stay, and if one day he´would prefer to leave, he simply will do it and I´ll never have to suffer that horrible doubt of not to know if he is with me because he loves me or just because he has the commitment of doing it.

yo pienso que casarse es un decision en la cual se debe estar muy firme con lo que se quiere hacer, ya que se involucran muchos factores de por medio, tanto sentimentales, materiales y familiares.

Mi opiñion sobre el matrimonío es sensillo. Encontrar una persona tan significante para casarse es algo especial que no es posible medír. Cuando una pareja (hombre y mujer) primero se encuentran y deciden ser novios, se empieza una relación distincta a todas otras. Los sentimientos son mutual, los pensamientos son sobre uno al otro y se complementan como leche y chocolate. Pero no todo es rosas y dulces, los novios tienen desiciones importantes que hacer. Desiciones financieras, y desiciones sobre metas personales y metas de trabajo. Estás desiciones son tremendamente importante que no se pueder ígnorar, pero contestando todas las preguntas con tu pareja en la mente será más práctico encontrar una solución para beneficiar a todos.

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Marriage for me is a tramit legal, I'm marriaged because i have two children and i think is important for her security, if my husband die or i die, the other  receive a mensuality of Govern for  live with the minims conditions. I think the marriage for gays is more important too because is another step in their war, in some countrys this is very wrong for the people and this is a very big step for them, i hope will be normally for them in the future. In spain this is normally, and this is great...

I think this is a bit of a difficult thing. Getting married, in general, seems quite difficult. You need someone who loves you (and maybe if you live in certain countries, you can't marry them) and you must love them too. You also need money: it would be complicated to organize a wedding without it, and where would the couple live? You should also give up on some things: going out with friends, studying, being free to do whatever you want whenever you want... And when you chose someone, it's supossed to be forever, so it's not something you can easily regret.

And even through all this, people still get married. Why? I think it's because of love, it's something really strong. Love is worth all this? Then it's something very valuable.

Lo que es importante en una relación entre dos personas es la confianza y el apoyo continuo. Soy estudiante en la universidad y por eso no me he casado con alguien, pero tengo unas ideas a cerca de mi 'relación ideal'.

A veces, me siento que las personas se casan rápidamente sin piensa. Eso quiere decir que viven las personas en un mundo en que todo pasa rápidamente y por eso se tratan las bodas como una cosa en el menú de un restaurante.

Es importante estar enamorado con la persona de tu vida, pero, además hay que tener paciencia. Elegir una pareja es una de las elecciones más importantes en toda la vida.

First of all I have to say I am a not religious person, I consider that this topic is completely different if one discuss it from a religious point of view.

But out of the religious theme, for me the marriage is something completely unnecessary, if you love someone and this person loves you why do you need a paper to certify that? Why do you need a ceremony or a party to celebrate this union? You have to feast everyday not only one.

Sign a paper to join two people just to make it harder for the two of them to separate, where is the romanticism in that? The romantic is to be with one person only because you love him not because you have a paper which say so.

 Mucho gente piensan que una boda no es importante

porque esta solo una hoja de papel, pero para mi

una boda symboliza confianza y se sentir un vinculo de union

con alguien.

 Nowadays, marriage is very different than time ago.  Previous generations couldn't imagine to live together without being married. It just was the rule, like their parents had done it. To add more, they had to do it by catholic weeding. I remember hearing my parents talking about their experiences, for instance, they had to go out with another person, to avoid they could be alone and  they would make love. It's very shocking and even funny. Nevertheless, I have to say that my parents are in their 80's and they came from a town where the people were very conservative.

 Now the lifestyle has changed a lot, people are more open-minded and it doesn't matter if you are married or not. Although there are people who still get married, they are in the minority. 

Anyway, In my opinion getting married is an option as respectable as others.